Response to ‘I Caught him Sexting’ on www.relationshipsurgery.com
My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. The past two years have been awesome up untill yesterday. Some girl called him early in the morning and the phone woke me up. It was a girl’s name…Weird I thought, then I laid back down.
But the more I thought about it, It bothered me so much I had to look thru his phone. And when I did, I saw a multitude of graphic pics of all these girls!!! I was so shocked, the whole time we’ve been together, I NEVER looked thru his phone, I just thought I could trust him so I didnt have to. I was so wrong. He says he never slept with any of them and he chatted with them on myspace.
I dont trust him anymore so I dont know what to believe. He apologized profusely, and I believe he was sincere..I just dont know if I can ever get past it. He has since thrown the old phone away and bought a new phone with a new number and promised to never do anything like this again. He is the love of my life and I feel like he isnt the person I thought i knew. He has begged me not to leave him for this, to give him a chance to prove that he can be the completely faithfull man I deserve.
Should I give him a chance? Or Should I just leave?
WOW! What a shock! Just goes to prove my theory that you can’t trust anyone these days!
Now then, if your boyfriends is doing something on a regular basis, he is well aware of the choice he’s making and the fact you didn’t know about it means he knows it’s wrong. So when he’s ‘apologising profusely’ is he all of a sudden REALLY sorry for all the choices he’s been making or is he crapping his pants now he’s been found out? It’s the later! Yea he didn’t really want you to get hurt but he took that risk anyway so he can’t have been that bothered. This lying little pig was ‘having his cake and eating it’ and he’s been caught out! By the way, well done you for going with your gut and getting to the bottom of it all!
I’m sorry to say, even if you don’t end it right now, the relationship’s over now that the trust is gone. One thing you could keep though, is your self respect by getting rid of him and moving on asap.
I’ve never met a girl who wasn’t better than this type of betrayal, I wish you luck x