Dating Relationships

Should he be Speaking to Other Girls?

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When I met my boyfriend he told me he didn’t really have any female friends. And that’s the way he’s kept it. If he didn’t know many girls when I met him, he’s certainly not going to be making them once we’re together. He obviously didn’t care much for female company before so now he has me for that, I’d find it odd if suddenly he wanted even more.

However if he did have some girl friends already, I’d find myself in a situation I wouldn’t be 100% comfortable with. The truth is, whether we like it or not, if a man’s got female friends when we meet him, we can’t stop him seeing them.

UNLESS he has EVER had ANY type of sexual relationship with them.

If a man has had a sexual relationship with his ‘friend’ then she ain’t ‘just a friend’. I don’t care how long ago it was or how brief the encounter, there was once a spark there and these sparks can’t reignite very easily.

In my experience men are friends with girls they fancy and girls are friends with men who fancy them. Men keep these girls close in case one day they get a chance and the girls enjoy being around men who give them a bit of an ego boost! I personally have never been friends with a man that I couldn’t have been with if I’d wanted to. I didn’t want to. But I always knew I could.

Don’t let yourself be disrespected by a man who has interest in other women. The spark between them could easily be ignited when the girl gets a little jealous of the attention you get and starts to do something about it…



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By Hannah Jones

Hannah is a Manchester based writer who has spent many years studying and working in the field of journalism and psychology. Hannah enjoys swimming, meditation and dog walking. Her favourite quote is, 'If it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you.'