Being Single Dating

How to be Unforgettable

After a first date, when the nights over and you’ve said good bye you will no doubt be wondering if he really will call like he said he would. Well if you’ve done the following things, he’s definitely going to want to see more of you.

1.  Made an effort to look nice but kept it classy.

A man can find a trashy looking girl on a street corner, if he’s dating it’s because he’s looking for something more than a female body, so dress classy, think girl next door. Men mind find a lot of flesh on show attractive but he’s looking for more than that, so make sure your face is pretty, your hair is done and you’re mostly covered up!

2. Show you’re confident within yourself

When he compliments you, say thank you. Don’t disagree with him and don’t put yourself down about anything. Men can’t be bothered with girls who don’t like themselves, it’s a big turn off.

3. Laugh at his jokes, but not too loud

If you’ve listened to him talking and laughed at his jokes, that’s going to make him feel pretty good about himself. But you don’t want to massage his ego too much and then send him off into the night! Let him feel good about himself but don’t go over the top! Try not to compliment him too much. Men like a challenge so if he thinks you’ve already fallen for him, he might not bother coming back.

4. Be yourself

You won’t stand out from the other girls he may be dating if your not yourself. Don’t try to be something your not because sooner or later he will see the real you and if for some reason he doesn’t like it, you’ve both wasted your time.

5. Offer to pay

Doing this shows your independence and generosity. Men hate having to pay for everything so it will please him to know you’re not out for a free dinner. He probably won’t let you pay so you may both decide to split the bill.

6.  Don’t mention your ex

INSTANT turn off for men

If you follow these basic dating rules, the only reason you won’t get a call will be the absence of chemistry, and that’s fine, we can’t control that. By the way I’m assuming you do leave him at the end of the night… because if you don’t, he’s definitely not going to consider you as a potential partner. He might call you though, at 3am when he’s lonely.



By Hannah Jones

Hannah is a Manchester based writer who has spent many years studying and working in the field of journalism and psychology. Hannah enjoys swimming, meditation and dog walking. Her favourite quote is, 'If it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you.'