5 Ways to Lose a Girl for Good

Some girls will disappear at the first sign of trouble. Other girls will stick around in a bad relationship and try and tough it out for various reasons. Eventually though, if you don’t treat a girl right, she will leave you, for good. Thanks to the relationship question & answer site; Relationship Surgery , we can reveal the top 10 ways a guy can lose a girl for good!


1. Being a massive flirt


Whether it’s harmless or you have a motive, flirting with other women is going to help you lose your woman for good. Most girls do not want their man to give so much attention to other females, no matter how confident they feel in themselves, repeated flirting with other women is going to make her feel insecure. Most women won’t put up with feeling like that for long so if you can’t devote your full attention to one girl, before you know it, she’ll be gone.

2. Lying


To the majority of self respecting women, a lie is a lie no matter what it’s about. Don’t lie about little thinks and think its OK, it’s not OK, it makes you look like a liar and will make her doubt everything you say. If your ex gets in contact out of the blue, don’t lie about it; it’s going to make you look guilty. Be open and be honest and she’ll respect you for it, but lie and keep secrets from her, she’ll be packing her bags and you won’t hear from her again.

3. Cheating


If you have ever cheated before you’ll know at some point you had a decision to make… Will She Find Out? You weighed it up in your head and probably came to the conclusion that you could make sure that she didn’t find out. You might have even decided that you’ll just deny it if she does. But you’ve taken a risk, you’ve chosen to be with another girl, risking your relationship. If she means so little to you that you would risk losing her then you probably shouldn’t be with her anyway. But once she finds out (and girls always find out) she’ll realise how little respect you have for her and you’ll be lucky if she even bothers to say goodbye.


4. Verbal/Psychological Abuse


This treatment of a girl might not be picked up on straight away but at some point the victim will realise what is happening and start to look for ways out of it. If you can’t be nice to a woman, let her live the way she wants to and make her feel good about herself, all the time, you shouldn’t be with her. Once she realises you’re abusing her, you’ve lost her for good.

5. Physical Abuse


Most girls are brought up knowing that if a man physically hurts you, you don’t stick around for a second time. If however a girl decides it could be worth another try and it continues, a guy might not be so lucky the next time. Although a lot of women do stay in physically abusive relationships for a lot longer than they should, many of them want to leave but are scared.

Having a woman want to leave you means you’ve already lost her.

By Hannah Jones

Hannah is a Manchester based writer who has spent many years studying and working in the field of journalism and psychology. Hannah enjoys swimming, meditation and dog walking. Her favourite quote is, 'If it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you.'